Having this conversation so many times I believe that most woman and men hold so many insecurities while fucking it has made most sexual encounters planned and robotic. We don't even realize anymore that this is how we have become. We are so interested in fantasies, and positions we have programmed ourselves to believe that we have a favorite position or need to place ourselves in role play. Which most the time are always pre discussed before hand.
After numerous unsatisfying encounters and becoming accustomed to only being able to cum in one position. And talking to my friends about how this guy wasn't good because he only wanted to fuck doggy, or another guy wasn't good because I did all the work. I realized the problem the whole time is our unrealistic ideals of fucking. Most the time rotted by pre conceptions that porn does it right. But porn is very mechanical. Suck dick, eat out, girl on top, then doggy, maybe followed with anal then finally is cumming on the face and that is all porn, through a fantasy story line in there like plumber and housewife and there it is. At this point I made a vow to myself that I refuse to go into any sexual encounter with those expectations.
Clearly there was still things I knew I wouldn't do, just like I knew there was things the guy might not be comfortable with that I would like. But I wasn't going to allow those things to effect my pleasure anymore.
With all that I found my solution. Raw, don't give a fuck, non mechanical, passionate fucking. The type of sex that when you think about it afterwards it is something you have no words for, no story to tells your friends because there is zero description or explanation you can find with words.
Many im sure right now are thinking this is what I do, or that what I'm saying is silly because you still will like a position the best or that your fantasies are important. But i challenge you to try not to think about what you want or what you like going into fucking and challenge your partner into trying it. Go into it with just letting go of everything you've learned or even thinking about I can't wait to fuck him/her a certain way.
You will increasingly find more pleasure and realize that you let go of boundaries, fantasies, and what you used to pre conceive as your favorite way to fuck.
So now to share with you an example of exactly what I mean.( plus examples are exciting). Before I changed my thought process I was the girl that could only cum on top. Every encounter started with sucking dick, eating out, me getting on top, hopefully cumming before he did, him flipping me over fucking me doggy style, blowing it on either my face if they mastered the art of holding out or typically on my back. There would be moaning, maybe a little dirty talk, mainly in question form such as " you like that dick" " you want to cum for me" " you love this pussy". Like I said pretty mechanical down to even our dirty talk.
Now once I changed it everything became uncontrollable dirty talk, moaning, touching.
Now the first time I tried it ( letting myself have pleasure it went more like this) . I layed down on the bed while he stood on the side of the bed I held his dick in my hand and licked his balls while also giving him head. Begging for him to lean over and play with my pussy seeing how wet it Got me for sucking his cock like that with my legs completely spread with his fingers in me. I enjoyed it so much I asked him to spit on my pussy without even realizing what I was saying. I grabbed a dildo out and begged him to fuck me with it. At this point I'm putting my saliva all over his dick and we are so deeply into it we could have both cum right there. But my body is feeling so amazing and free I don't want it to stop. So he mounted me missionary while I just allowed him to put the tip in and out and run my clit with his wet cock. Both of us wanting it in all the way but enjoying the tension we were causing. All the while we were calling eachother names not classy names like baby, sweetheart, but like asshole, whore. Then I finally put his dick all the way in. The feeling of taking it was better then numerous times before,even times before as I was cumming. The we slightly kept rolling around where we were on our sides as I lifted my leg up reached between my legs and played with his balls as he was thrusting and biting my neck. Then I ended up on top which I rode and begged him to suck on my nipples. Then I pulled it out and I was dripping and I slightly moved my hiring wet right pussy up to his face and had him taste me while I licked my tits while I rode his face and moved his finger to my ass. He couldn't wait to put his hard dick back into my gushing wet pussy. So I end up reverse cowgirl which I grabbed a little vibrator that while fucking him I rubbed on my clit and up and down his balls. All while he spits on his hand and puts his thumb deep in my asshole. I get ready to cum, and once I do he is so excited he wants to again lick my juicy cum filled pussy. After he gets his taste again he flips me doggy style puts he hand on the back of my neck and shoves my head down while my ass is in the air. He spits on my asshole and I feel it dripping Unto his dick that he keeps sliding in and out of my pussy. And now I am at his mercy while he keeps screaming and moaning how good my pussy taste and feels. I can't stop moaning and want to taste me also he pulls his dick that has me all over it out and I turn around and suck my pussy juice off of him. And it kept going like this just juicy and every position. I mean at one point He put his face 5" away from my pussy and I took my fingers and spread it out so he could see the inside of it. I came that night 4 times. On his face, reverse cowgirl, doggy style and once while he sucked on my tits and played with my clit as I fucked myself with a dildo.By the time we were done I couldn't recall half the shit that happened half the things we said and was completely satisfied and so was he we couldn't move didn't talk just laid there so tired and astonished we didn't know what to say and had to catch our breaths.
It was only a few days afterwards we talked about how normally he can only get off in role play situation, and I can only cum facing him on top. However it was the best sex we ever had.
So In conclusion to the question " What is your favorite position?" I truly can say all of them. It's never the position that can give you ultimate pleasure, it is taking the mechanical pre conceived ideals of needing a favorite position out of the fucking and just letting go!
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